For You, Lord, are good, and ready to forgive, and abundant in lovingkindness to all who call upon You. Psalm 86: 5 (NASV)
For it is by God's grace that you have been saved through faith. It is not the result of your own efforts, but God's gift, so that no one can boast about it. God has made us what we are, and in our union with Christ Jesus he has created us for a life of good deeds, which he has already prepared for us to do. Ephesians 2:8-10 (KJV)
The Following from Autism Site
Appreciate those who love you. Help those who need you. Forgive those who hurt you. Forget those who leave you.
Who among us is normal enough to decide what is considered normal.